Domestic violence is a pattern of behavior used to gain power and control over a partner. This can include physical, financial, or emotional abuse.

If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, please reach out for help. Our community has many free and private resources to support you.

Helpmate (24/7 Support)

Helpmate is a local group that helps people affected by domestic violence. Their services are free and confidential. They offer:

  • Emergency shelter

  • Counseling

  • Safety planning

Contact Helpmate:

Buncombe County Family Justice Center (FJC)

The Family Justice Center is a safe place for victims of domestic violence, sexual assault, and elder abuse. It brings many services together in one building, including police, health care, and legal help.

  • Translation: Most partners have staff who speak two languages. All partners can connect you with a translator if needed.

  • Appointments: You can schedule a visit, but walk-ins are always welcome.

Visit or Call the FJC:


National Hotlines

If you cannot reach local services, these national lines are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week: